I want my friend to dump her new man so we can hang out together. Shes not speaking to me?

I'm a 41yr old female and tonight i'm verrrrrry pissed off with my girlfriend who has gone out on a date and not invited me. We live together this past 14yrs and we were always real close. We had a pattern, sleep til noon, go to the shops, put on the slab and hit the bars on the strip by 5pm. Yes we had several guys, we dont look our age, but our rule was f him and dump him. That worked for years until shes gone and fallen in love with this fancy doctor who works down in the county hospital. Hes someone she wouldnt normally go out with. And he disses me all the time. Hes trying to change her and turn her all sensible and old woman like. Next thing shel be cooking muffins instead of using the oven for clothes storage as we do in this apartment. I just dont like the changes i'm seeing in her. Last night i basically invited myself on one of their dates. I got tanked up, had a way too much to drink, and i lost control of my kidneys...and bowels and soiled his big flash car. Ok it was an accident. On top of that, iv' got something nasty down below and i asked her doctor loatrio to explain it to me and he refused to treat me, telling me to go to the hospital and get checked out. I know its craps, the guy i've been with had them. However, my mates gone all funny and not speaking to me. Before we oftne had a wee in a taxi and she'd laugh it off. This guys bad, hes coming between us and changing her. I think she should dump him.